With respect to your comments in whether I really live the path that I write about, I am truly sad in this as you don’t know me. Perhaps this is why we are not together any more. I have no value with material things independent of your comments. I have probably spent a total of $500 on clothes for myself over the past 5 years on myself. I have no interest in myself at the superficial layer. This makes me smile that you perceive me this way and those that know me know this is truly me. Your comments in that I date attractive, younger women is interesting as well. Yes, I have had 3 girlfriends in the 10 years we have been apart. I am not sure what I am even supposed to say to this, outside of the comment I have chosen not to live a life of a monk. And, finally your comments that I pawn the girls off when they are with me. This couldn’t be further from the reality, however, you have your truth and I cannot change this, I can only stand for love, complete love for my daughters. I am not expecting you to understand this. I only wish we were partners as I have tried so many times before with you, to be partners for our daughters.

I appreciate your comments and your concern. I extend again my offer to sit and talk and listen to you and hear all of your concerns. This offer is always open and a direct way of reaching me versus sharing this to my readers. Again, I am glad to share. At every moment we are a teacher and a student. We can always learn at every moment.

Thank you for this moment. t

How much of your love has been spent on serving others selflessly? How much of it has been spent loving younger attractive women? How much are you in love with the idea of yourself being a “free-spirit” and “creative writer” or a “peaceful warrior”? When was the last time you truly embraced lack of material objects? Just because you aren’t making $ like you used to doesn’t mean you don’t still crave those things. Your attire and attention to your looks tell a different story. Your extreme value in attractive women points a different direction.

My call to action to you is to truly look at those who matter – your family, especially your very own beautiful daughters tell the strongest story of our real character. Are you truly close to them, or distant? Trying to pawn them off on others during the few days you have them each month is quite a glaring truth into what you really value. Please know this is not meant to be an attack. It’s a wake-up bell before it is too late. I know far too many damaged women who had non-present fathers and even though they may not know how to say it – you aren’t loving them in a healthy manner that will leave the legacy you want behind. Somebody needed to tell you the truth.